What is love?

Christ says god loves you god loves all men equaly. So what does that mean? Really what does it mean? What is love? Lets define love. Now to some people love is sex. You love some one you have sex with them. So based on this definition of love god loves you = God wants to have s.ex with you. HEHEHE. God loves all men equaly means that heaven is a great big o.rgy. So this is obviously a silly example. Other people hold it that god loves you but... if you don't earn his love he will torture you for eternity. So god loves you = well actualy god doesn't love.
So this is my definition of love. Love has 7 components, 7 the perfect number. They are: Accepting, Understanding, Respecting, Caring, Admiring, Giving and (can't remember the last one). So this means that god accepts you (god sees you as okay). God accepts you, EVEN when you don't accept yourself. God accepts you, EVEN when NOBODY else accepts you. And god accepts others. God accepts others EVEN when YOU don't accept them. God accepts others EVEN when THEY don't accept themselves and God even accepts them EVEN when NO ONE ELSE accepts them. So this means that god understands you. God understands you he understands why you do the things you do, EVEN when you don't understand yourself. God understands you, EVEN when NOBODY understands you. And god understands others. God understands others EVEN when YOU don't understand them. God even understands others EVEN when THEY don't understand themselves and God even understands them EVEN when NO ONE ELSE understands them. God isn't up their condeming us because he understands us. WE are condeming us. We are condeming us because we don't understand. We are condeming us because we don't have gods love and understanding. God doesn't see us as bad and wrong WE see us as bad and wrong.
(So this means that god respects you(god sees your value). God respects you, EVEN when you don't respect yourself. God respects you, EVEN when NOBODY respects you. And god respects others. God respects others EVEN when YOU don't respect them. God respects others EVEN when THEY don't respect themselves and God even respects them EVEN when NO ONE ELSE respects them. So this means that god cares about you. God cares about you, EVEN when you don't care about yourself. God cares about you, EVEN when NOBODY cares about you. And god cares about others. God cares about others EVEN when YOU don't care about them. God cares about others EVEN when THEY don't care about themselves and God even cares about them EVEN when NO ONE ELSE cares about them. So this means that god admires you god sees your beauty). God admires you, EVEN when you don't admire yourself. God admires you, EVEN when NOBODY admires you. And god admires others. God admires others EVEN when YOU don't admire them. God admires others EVEN when THEY don't admire themselves and God even admires them EVEN when NO ONE ELSE admires them.